How to Develop a Good Parent and Child Relationship

1.         Being Involved

1.1       Get on their level.

1.2       Emphasize the importance of family time.

1.3       Dedicate one-on-one time for each child.

1.4       Stay in touch with academics, friendships, and extra-curriculars.

2.         Maintaining Positive Communication

2.1       Be trustworthy.

2.2       Practice active listening without distractions.

2.3       Follow the 3 F’s of effective parenting.

2.3.1    Be firm. State what the consequences are and apply them consistently.

2.3.2    Be fair. Make sure the punishment fits the crime. 

            Try to avoid harsh or excessive consequences.

2.3.3    Be friendly. Convey your words in steady yet polite tone. 
            Avoid raising your voice.
            Simply explain what terms they violated and lay out the consequences. 

            Also, take time to praise them when they are doing well.

2.4       Have relaxed, side-by-side conversations.

3.         Changing the Relationship over Time

3.1       Review rules and increase privileges as your children get older.

3.2       Include them in decisions.

3.3       Encourage your child to take on challenges and find independence.

3.4       Open up and show your human side.

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